Ladies, listen up. Part 1

Men and Women are different, yet they are the same

I have learned over the years that men and women think differently. There was that book that said men and women were from different planets(you know exactly what I am talking about). I can see their point, but I find that most times and books will dumb men down. Men are intelligent beings, just like women. Men just process things differently than women. This may be the result of biology or genetics; I would have to do more research on that. Men need time to process things too. Women can press men for details all they want. But then they get mad when the guy doesn’t respond? Seriously? That is your fault. The men can become less inclined to express themselves after the constant pressing on how they feel about things. It just seems like men are not into tidbits. To them, it may seem like women are just rambling. I feel like this too.

Sometimes, I feel like a 30-minute one-sided conversation could have been trimmed down into a 3-minute synopsis. Ladies, sometimes, we can ramble on and on. It may seem like there is no point to the story. If you see your guy or fellow conversation holder start to roll their eyes or drift off, do them a favor and just give the pivotal details or bulletpoints. Otherwise, you will get to the point where the other person is just waiting for your mouth to stop moving or leave the conversation altogether.

Men like to do single tasks. This is great because you know that it will be done great. This is not the case when they are listening to something. The radio could be playing or someone is talking, they hear the entire thing while they are working on an activity. This is their version of multitasking. By observing your guy’s ways, you will be less frustrated too.

I purposely kept this short, you’ll see why next week.

Hasta luego!

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