Ferociously in Love

I would like to be in love like that. I want to love hard and powerfully. I want someone who can love me like no one else. There is a special place for me in their heart. When I see that man, I want the oxygen to come from him, just pull me into him. The passion needs to be there. If not, I want a man who wants to find a new one with me. The love should mature with age, like a fine wine. It should get better with age. I don't want that puppy love years into the relationship. I want to grow old gracefully with my man.

The love that I have for a man, it should be powerful and graceful. It should send a message that he is with me. I don't want that movie romance-type of relationship. That isn't real. I expect fights, arguments, plates thrown, and passionate love. We can argue or fight, but we know that it comes from a good place. Love doesn't pay the mortgage. It doesn't cover the costs of the relationship. Relationships are emotionally and physically exhausting. There are times when it can break you spiritually, but if you have the right person, it can bind you back together. I expect my man to be mad at me, but I expect him to be happy when he sees me. He can hold onto me, and within that touch, he knows that I am invested in him. He can let me free to love him, and he can do the same for me. We can share our interests without judgment. He would never leave me alone with my imagination, he would encourage it from near or far. He would never let me suffer in silence. He would be there next to me, his tears and anger are right there for me to see.

Times are rough. It is hard to be alone in this world. It is like fighting in a war all by yourself. We long for a strong relationship. We want that person to stand by us as we navigate through whatever life wants to throw at us. I know I want someone to be with me when I fail. There is nothing like having that person hold you when you break down. Someone to have that armor and defend your honor, it is so special. I have had that before, and I loved them for it. I loved every moment of those times. I had that guy that I know would save me from harm, and allow me to do the same for him. They could push me away, but they knew that I would never go away.

There are moments when there is a bomb at our relationships. Life without that person can hurt you. Losing that person that you love, it is heartbreaking. That real relationship, it can prepare me for the harder stuff that will come my way without them.

Songs for the week:

Westlife--Lighthouse

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tivph7mTku4

Needtobreathe--Hard Love(featuring Andra Day)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tE3Fp8C_ufg

Matt Cardle--Loving You(featuring Melanie C.)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j3sRdbaMwgk

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